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Comment on Food and Loneliness by magdalenaperks

magdalenaperks — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 19:19:29 +0000

I think having the routine is more important than having a formal meal, every meal. If lunch is watching the weather report or a favourite old comedy, nothing wrong there. But dinner at the table, no matter who else is there, is a good routine to start. Children treasure security and routines.

Comment on Food and Loneliness by magdalenaperks

magdalenaperks — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 19:17:53 +0000

I used to do the same thing! I was alone for years, too, and meals were wicked haphazard. My widowed father cautioned me to make at least one sit-down meal for myself every day, although I admit I didn’t always manage.

Comment on Familiar Winter Ground by magdalenaperks

magdalenaperks — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 19:16:51 +0000

I think what I want for Christmas this year is enough to share with others – particularly my sons, who are both struggling with underemployment. I’d like to make a small donation to Living Water or the Salvation Army foos programme, or the local food bank as well. I admit, I re-gifted last year’s monetary gifts.

Comment on Familiar Winter Ground by Amber Lee

Amber Lee — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 16:29:34 +0000

One year, maybe two years ago, I ask my family members to not give me gifts, my mother’s side. They were horrified and angry at me. My grandfather said I was being selfish because it was important to them to give gifts and I was taking away the joy they have at giving gifts. So I received gifts anyways. I do enjoy giving gifts to, so I compromise with them and receive small things. This year will be a small one, because after two weddings and a baby being born – we all have very meager incomes. Everyone seems a little down by this, but I’m perfectly content. I’m hoping it reminds my family of how important the other parts of Christmas are.

Comment on Food and Loneliness by Amber Lee

Amber Lee — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 16:24:18 +0000

My husband, I assume because he had been a bachelor on his own for 10 years, often will try to make a plate of food for dinner and then stand right there and eat it (!). He is still getting use to waiting until both plates are put together and then sitting down at the table together to began eating. I want it to be a habit before we have children and then suddenly try to make it a habit.

Comment on Food and Loneliness by Paula

Paula — Thu, 10 Dec 2009 14:53:14 +0000

I completely agree Magdalena! My husband likes to eat in front of the TV. I usually give in and we “picnic” (as Ella calls it) for lunch in the living room. But I insist that supper is eaten at the table in the kitchen. Due to Colin farming, some meals are eaten without Daddy (so Ella can get to bed on time), but they are eaten at the TABLE. I think that’s one of the main problems with families these days and why so many break up. Families don’t think as a cohesive unit, it’s everybody doing whatever they want. I know some married couples that spend Christmas day at their respective parent’s house. Could you imagine that? Celebrating Christmas without Nicholas? I couldn’t.

Comment on Birthday Blessings by akhomeschoolfun

akhomeschoolfun — Tue, 08 Dec 2009 17:04:11 +0000

Sounds wonderful. Happy birthday to him. As far as this post not being theological, deep, or profound, it’s nice to have your share about something else every once in awhile too.

Comment on Birthday Blessings by Lucy

Lucy — Mon, 07 Dec 2009 21:36:49 +0000

Just for you Magda- http://www.bbc.co.uk/victorianchristmas/activity/christmas-cards.shtml

Happy Birthday Nicolas.

Comment on Advent Discipline, Ekonomia by magdalenaperks

magdalenaperks — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 18:02:05 +0000

Amber, be gentle with yourself this year. The Lord is delighted in you, don’t worry about those who have their own issues around the holidays. Enjoy your new life together.

Comment on Advent Discipline, Ekonomia by Amber Lee

Amber Lee — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 18:00:21 +0000

I know! Though I could use a reminder in kind words. I’m with you on the gifts and giving. I write a post every year on holiday cards.